"Just Adopt"

Just Adopt they say.. It's not as easy as it sounds. 

Before and after the twins we got those typical comments like "why not just adopt" or "you can always adopt". As if adoption is such an easy process.. We all have that someone who knows someone who had a quick or easy process and was able to adopt, that doesn't mean it will apply to us the same. 

I too have often thought of adoption but due to my disability most likely could be denied right off the bat. So next time you think of mentioning something like this to someone who is trying, is infertile or just lost a child, do yourself a favor and don't say anything about adoption. Especially if you've not walked the path they have. 

Be mindful of your words and be kind to one another.